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KICK OUT THE FAIRY IN YOU AND LET THE WOMAN OUT
Welcome to you, who managed to get here
When a Woman doesn’t love herself, she only lives a half-life
Where was this book born?
Why and how do Women get lost?
What does it mean choosing the wrong path?
How can we find our way back?
Within our Womanly nature hides a subtle and mythological image
I’ve learned something: inside of us lives a Fairy
The revolution of going back to being Yourself
How to use this book
What story did you tell yourself?
The woman answers
And then what happened?
But at this point, who or what is the Fairy?
What women who love themselves have to say
But then, where did the fairy come from?
The rite of passage to the grown-up age
And that’s exactly where the Fairy, nowadays, comes into play!
Your Fairy has only a few days left
Who better than You can be… You?
The world needs you.
Housework and the Fairy
The Fairy has taken over you!
Let’s play “The rules of the perfect housewife”
House chores and the Woman.
The Twilight Zone
Where’s the way out?
Find yourself again, because You are the only Light that will guide you out of the Darkness.
Sex and the Woman
Situation 1: the inhibited one
Situation 2: the exaggerated one
Situation 3: the woman who believes in the power of telepathy
So how can we get out of it?
Here’s what influences us when it comes to sex
For now, I want to simply give you a big hug.
The first manual that won’t change you into another person, but it will teach you how to be You.
The most important trip is the one inside yourself.
© Simona Ruffini - November 2014
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronical or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the author.
Welcome to you, who managed to get here p. 4
When a Woman doesn’t love herself, she only lives a half-life p. 6
Where was this book born? p. 7
Why and how do Women get lost? p. 8
How can we find our way back? p. 9
Within our Womanly nature hides a subtle and mythological figure p. 17
The revolution of going back to being Yourself p. 18
How to use this book p. 20
WHEN THE FAIRY TALKS AND THE WOMAN ANSWERS p. 22
What story did you tell yourself? p. 23
The woman answers p. 24
And then what happened? p. 27
But, at this point, who or what is the fairy? p. 28
THE FAIRY’S WEAK POINT p. 31
What women who love themselves have to say p. 33
But then, where did the fairy come from? p. 34
The automatic-thought alarm! p. 35
The rite of passage to the grown-up age p. 37
THE WOMAN BETWEEN MISSED INITITATION RITUALS AND IMPOSSIBLE STEREOTYPESp. 38
And that’s exactly where the Fairy, nowadays, comes into play! p. 39
Your Fairy has only a few days left p. 40
THE FAIRY IN ACTION p. 43
Who better than You can be... You? p. 44
The world needs you p. 45
Housework and the Fairy p. 48
The fairy has taken over you! p. 50
Let’s play “The rules of the perfect housewife” p. 51
What comes to your mind when you think of “house chores”? p. 53
The woman and house chores p. 54
The Twilight Zone p. 57
Let’s play “The rules of the perfect worker” p. 59
SEX AND THE FAIRY p. 62
Sex and the Woman p. 64
Situation 1: the inhibited p. 65
Situation 2: the exaggerated p. 68
Situation 3: the woman who believes in the power of telepathy p. 69
So how can we get out of it? p. 70
Whatever you think will happen, it will happen, because you will make sure that it happens p. 72
If you, just like many others, have always felt wrong, inevitably but inexorably kept comparing yourself to other Women, are tired of the self-help manuals who want to turn you into someone you are not, well then this is the right place for you.
Just so you know, you are not alone.
And most of all, what happens to you is normal.
The message I want to convey to you through these pages is that you are just fine.
I am not saying you are perfect and that you don’t need to keep bettering yourself.
I am saying that the first step to become what you are destined to be is to be exactly who you already are.
The first, and most important, lesson in female evolution is to accept who you are.
I know it may seem difficult, or even impossible, but you can do it.
I can tell you because I have gone through it myself.
So why this book, you may be asking?
And why has this book been written by a criminologist, who takes on many cases of abuse towards women?
What do spiritual evolution, self-love, the Light, and abuse on women have in common?
I can explain with a simple example.
You are looking for a job.
You know how much you are worth, what it is that you are looking for, and you know exactly how much money you should be paid.
At your job interview, they offer you a dissatisfactory job, way below your capabilities and aspirations, and not properly compensated at all.
You stand up, thank them, and walk away.
That’s exactly what happens to a Woman who knows what she’s worth and isn’t afraid to show it.
And most of all, she doesn’t settle for something lower than what she expects.
It may also be that that job seems quite attractive to you.
So you start giving it your all, only to find out that everything you were promised was nothing but a lie.
Your salary is minimum, the work hours keep getting longer, your dissatisfaction keeps rising, and whenever you try to explain your feelings to your boss, you are met with disdain and indifference, all topped with a disgusting remark of, “You are so unappreciative! After all I do for you!”.
At this point, your choice is imminent.
You get up, without thanking anybody, and walk away (making sure to sue him).
What does this example mean?
Well, take this instance and place it into a personal relationship.
What would happen if, instead of your boss, that man was a significant other or a boyfriend?
Would you settle to spend the rest of your life with a man who does not satisfy you, who does not appreciate you, who does not support you, but actually only tries to manipulate you and make you feel bad?
And what if the same man tried to be violent towards you, at first only with words, then psychologically and then physically?
How many Women settle for less and stay in an abusive relationship?
It’s not necessary to list any other example to show you what I mean when I talk about women with no self-love.
You are not happy with your weight but you are unable to lose it;
You hate your job but think you can’t aspire to become anything better;
You have a dream but you think you “will never be able to fulfill it”;
You wish you could move but have no idea of where to start.
The list could go on and on forever, but I think you get the picture now.
Her “not-love” mirrors into all of her choices.
A body she doesn’t like and doesn’t reflect who she is;
A job that doesn’t satisfy her;
A place where she doesn’t live the way she’d like to;
Friends and relationships that don’t gratify her;
An image of herself in which she feels lost.
Every time you put something else or somebody else before yourself, you are at risk of losing yourself.
I don’t want you to be selfish, but to love yourself, which is different.
I have met so many Women who wish they were different from who they are, and I have finally understood where this feeling comes from: